THE BLOG
When Your Partner Comes Out
As our culture learns to be inclusive of more sexualities, many people are questioning their own. Leaning into experimentation to find out where your boundaries are is a good, healthy activity. You...
When Sex Becomes a Bargaining Chip
When things get tough in a relationship, sex is usually the first casualty in the battle. But if this goes on for too long, it can become a longstanding dynamic. Many partners are guilty of...
The Most Common Sexual Fantasies and Why We Have Them
Many people wonder whether their sexual fantasies are typical—and where they come from. Even those you might consider weird are likely more common than you think. Let’s talk about where your...
Finding a Balance Between Masturbation and Intimacy With Your Partner
Realizing that your partner masturbates can strike a blow to your self-esteem. This reaction is especially common when it comes as a surprise. But what does it mean when your partner masturbates?...
How Your Attachment Style Influences Your Sexual Behavior
Attachment theory suggests that the bonds you form as a child have a profound influence over the bonds you form as an adult. It sheds light on what kind of romantic partner you are and can even help...
Healing Your Relationship So You Can Have Better Sex
If you want to have good sex, sometimes the first step is taking a look at your relationship. What happens outside the bedroom indeed impacts what happens inside the bedroom. While some can maintain...
How to Change Who You Find Attractive
If you had the picture-perfect upbringing, or at least something close, maybe you are an effortless magnet for healthy, stable, available partners. But what about the rest of us? Who we find...
Are You Having the Best Orgasm Possible?
If there’s one thing we can all agree on, it’s that orgasms are outstanding. They’re fun, good for you, and one of the most pleasurable activities within the human experience. But having a good...
Reconnecting After a Fight
Couples who have happy, healthy relationships that stand the test of time can connect deeply with their partner in many ways. Intimacy isn’t just physical connection—it covers far more bases. Let’s...