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The Only Goal You Need for Good Sex? Pleasure

The Only Goal You Need for Good Sex? Pleasure

Show me a busy, productive person and I’ll show you someone who will, at some point, be tempted to have goal-oriented sex. Goal-oriented sex often looks like checking sex off your to-do list for the...

How to Try Prostate Play for the First Time

How to Try Prostate Play for the First Time

Though there hasn’t been much research on the P spot, more and more men are learning that it’s a powerhouse of pleasure. Many men love prostate play, but still others are nervous about trying it....

Getting Better After a Breakup

Getting Better After a Breakup

Dating is a skill you can learn—and so is recovering from a breakup in a way that will leave you better off next time. When a relationship ends, taking on emotional baggage is all too easy if you...

4 Steps to Opening Your Relationship

4 Steps to Opening Your Relationship

Treating monogamy as the default way to have a relationship is common. But it’s not the only way to have a happy, healthy, sexually fulfilling, and emotionally secure relationship. Many people find...

How to Make Masculinity Work for You, Sexually

How to Make Masculinity Work for You, Sexually

Gender roles are slowly fading and allowing people to be free to express their gender in many ways. And yet, some corrosive ideas still linger that could be setting you up for worse sex. When you...