There’s no doubt about it: sex toys for married couples can be a hidden weapon that amps up your sex life. And this isn’t a new phenomenon. In fact, there is evidence that sex toys have been used for 28,000 years. So, let’s talk about why sex toy use is normal (even...

Sex technology has come a long way since the days where porn meant an adult magazine or a show in an adult movie theater. The options for ways to consume porn have expanded exponentially, and they now include virtual reality porn. Many people wonder about the societal...

A majority of people are not monogamous—even if they continue to have monogamous relationships. Many relationships that started with monogamy end with infidelity, and this can even occur in otherwise happy relationships. Now that non-monogamous relationships are...

If you’ve ever wondered what role nature and biology play in our sexual inclinations and how we mate, you’re not alone. Our ancestors and prior generations formed where we are as a society today and what is sexually acceptable versus what is stigmatized. We can learn...

Couples who are together for a long time are likely to face a number of different sexual problems. From sexual boredom to sexlessness, it’s important to be able to face sexual problems together. Let’s talk about some of the most common reasons couples are dissatisfied...

Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault For survivors of sexual assault, sometimes even watching the news can be triggering. Sexual assault allegations are incredibly common, and we live in a system that protects perpetrators and interrogates the survivors. Rape culture is so...

When problems in the bedroom arise, sometimes the tendency is to avoid acknowledging them. Yet, this is detrimental for so many people. When you ignore sexual dysfunction, like painful sex, the best that can happen is that it will stay the same. Yet, your problem may...

All too often, couples expect that their initial sexual spark will last forever. Unfortunately, keeping passion alive takes a bit of effort. It’s natural for the spark to fade, but with the tips below, you can replace it with something even better.  Phases of a...

No matter what, things can (and will!) go wrong in the bedroom. There’s no avoiding it, which is why self-compassion can help us have better sex lives. What does self-compassion have to do with sexuality? Let’s talk about it. Self-Compassion 101 Self-compassion is the...

Low sex drive in marriage can happen to anyone—it doesn’t just affect women. And it affects more couples than you might think. Many people feel hopeless because the chemistry seems to be gone forever. You don’t have to despair or give up trying; there are several ways...