When Your Partner Comes Out

When Your Partner Comes Out

As our culture learns to be inclusive of more sexualities, many people are questioning their own. Leaning into experimentation to find out where your boundaries are is a good, healthy activity. You may also wonder if your partner is bisexual or even gay. More people...

When Sex Becomes a Bargaining Chip

When Sex Becomes a Bargaining Chip

When things get tough in a relationship, sex is usually the first casualty in the battle. But if this goes on for too long, it can become a longstanding dynamic. Many partners are guilty of withholding sex as punishment for misbehaving partners. If this feels like a...

The Most Common Sexual Fantasies and Why We Have Them

The Most Common Sexual Fantasies and Why We Have Them

Many people wonder whether their sexual fantasies are typical—and where they come from. Even those you might consider weird are likely more common than you think. Let’s talk about where your fantasies came from and some of the most normal things to fantasize about....

Healing Your Relationship So You Can Have Better Sex

Healing Your Relationship So You Can Have Better Sex

If you want to have good sex, sometimes the first step is taking a look at your relationship. What happens outside the bedroom indeed impacts what happens inside the bedroom. While some can maintain a hot sex life despite problems in the relationship, most people will...

How to Change Who You Find Attractive

How to Change Who You Find Attractive

If you had the picture-perfect upbringing, or at least something close, maybe you are an effortless magnet for healthy, stable, available partners. But what about the rest of us? Who we find attractive isn’t set in stone, and we can learn to hone our attractions...

Are You Having the Best Orgasm Possible?

Are You Having the Best Orgasm Possible?

If there’s one thing we can all agree on, it’s that orgasms are outstanding. They’re fun, good for you, and one of the most pleasurable activities within the human experience. But having a good orgasm is a skill, meaning it’s something you can learn and get better at...

Reconnecting After a Fight

Reconnecting After a Fight

Couples who have happy, healthy relationships that stand the test of time can connect deeply with their partner in many ways. Intimacy isn’t just physical connection—it covers far more bases. Let’s talk about how you can deepen your relationship by increasing the...