How to Make Masculinity Work for You, Sexually

How to Make Masculinity Work for You, Sexually

Gender roles are slowly fading and allowing people to be free to express their gender in many ways. And yet, some corrosive ideas still linger that could be setting you up for worse sex. When you get rid of old beliefs about your masculinity and what it means, you...

Temperature Play 101: A Guide for Beginners

Temperature Play 101: A Guide for Beginners

Sometimes, foreplay is a dish best served cold—or hot, if you prefer. If you’re looking to turn up the heat in your sex life, here’s how to get started with temperature play.    Why Temperature Play Is Cool Sex is often best when it overwhelms your senses. Think...

Mindful Edging for Penis Owners

Mindful Edging for Penis Owners

Orgasms for penis owners can sometimes signal the end of sex. While orgasms are incredible, not all penis owners want the fun to end just because they climaxed. The tips below can help you extend sex through edging, focus on pleasure, and climax when you want to—and...

When Your Partner Comes Out

When Your Partner Comes Out

As our culture learns to be inclusive of more sexualities, many people are questioning their own. Leaning into experimentation to find out where your boundaries are is a good, healthy activity. You may also wonder if your partner is bisexual or even gay. More people...

When Sex Becomes a Bargaining Chip

When Sex Becomes a Bargaining Chip

When things get tough in a relationship, sex is usually the first casualty in the battle. But if this goes on for too long, it can become a longstanding dynamic. Many partners are guilty of withholding sex as punishment for misbehaving partners. If this feels like a...

The Most Common Sexual Fantasies and Why We Have Them

The Most Common Sexual Fantasies and Why We Have Them

Many people wonder whether their sexual fantasies are typical—and where they come from. Even those you might consider weird are likely more common than you think. Let’s talk about where your fantasies came from and some of the most normal things to fantasize about....