How to Make Masculinity Work for You, Sexually
Gender roles are slowly fading and allowing people to be free to express their gender in many ways. And yet, some corrosive ideas still linger that could be setting you up for worse sex. When you get rid of old beliefs about your masculinity and what it means, you...
Believing These Sexual Myths Can Ruin Your Sex Life. Here’s What You Need to Know
The gap between what people think makes sex good and what actually makes sex good is wide. Breaking down the myths that keep the two apart can help you focus on what truly would amp up your sexual skills. Studies often show that what is seen in porn isn’t necessarily...
Temperature Play 101: A Guide for Beginners
Sometimes, foreplay is a dish best served cold—or hot, if you prefer. If you’re looking to turn up the heat in your sex life, here’s how to get started with temperature play. Why Temperature Play Is Cool Sex is often best when it overwhelms your senses. Think...
Mindful Edging for Penis Owners
Orgasms for penis owners can sometimes signal the end of sex. While orgasms are incredible, not all penis owners want the fun to end just because they climaxed. The tips below can help you extend sex through edging, focus on pleasure, and climax when you want to—and...
How to Simplify Long-Term Relationships and Sexual Consent
Most people know the basics of consent when you’re newly dating someone: find out what they’re into and what they’re not before you get started, ask what they want to do right now, and then keep monitoring their responses during sex. But consent is a lifelong...
When Your Partner Comes Out
As our culture learns to be inclusive of more sexualities, many people are questioning their own. Leaning into experimentation to find out where your boundaries are is a good, healthy activity. You may also wonder if your partner is bisexual or even gay. More people...
When Sex Becomes a Bargaining Chip
When things get tough in a relationship, sex is usually the first casualty in the battle. But if this goes on for too long, it can become a longstanding dynamic. Many partners are guilty of withholding sex as punishment for misbehaving partners. If this feels like a...
The Most Common Sexual Fantasies and Why We Have Them
Many people wonder whether their sexual fantasies are typical—and where they come from. Even those you might consider weird are likely more common than you think. Let’s talk about where your fantasies came from and some of the most normal things to fantasize about....
Finding a Balance Between Masturbation and Intimacy With Your Partner
Realizing that your partner masturbates can strike a blow to your self-esteem. This reaction is especially common when it comes as a surprise. But what does it mean when your partner masturbates? Let’s talk about whether solo pleasure can be part of a healthy...
How Your Attachment Style Influences Your Sexual Behavior
Attachment theory suggests that the bonds you form as a child have a profound influence over the bonds you form as an adult. It sheds light on what kind of romantic partner you are and can even help you understand who you are attracted to and what type of behavior...