With the proper knowledge and skills, anyone can reach orgasm. Here is what you need to know to get started.  Every Orgasm Is Different No matter your gender, you can have multiple types of orgasms. Yet culture has sold us on the idea that there is a “right way” to...

Is your sex life dwindling? That can happen—even in otherwise happy relationships. Here’s how to get back into the bedroom. Sexlessness and Disconnection When you haven’t been having sex, it can be helpful to clarify what you feel deprived of in terms that have...

Having a spicy sex life looks a little different when you’re in a long-term relationship. You can’t simply have the same sex over and over and expect it to be thrilling. Below are some ideas you can try to feel a sense of adventure, urgency, and anticipation that is...

No matter your gender, your sex life can suffer when you ignore your pelvic floor. A healthy pelvic floor can help mitigate issues like erectile dysfunction, pain during sex, and urgent, frequent trips to the bathroom. It can impact your quality of life inside and...

Getting out of a routine can feel like a lot of work, but it doesn’t have to be. Instead, it can feel like playtime—especially when you incorporate sexual anticipation. Seduction, flirtation, and sexual anticipation can take regular sex to spectacularly hot heights....

When you’re having sex, do you feel like the main event? Confident when asking for pleasure and poised when giving it? If not, you may be spectatoring. Yes, spectatoring is a libido-killing habit that many of us fall into, especially when being too critical of our...

If you feel uninformed about menopause, you’re not alone. Even medical doctors have startlingly little education on what happens to our bodies during menopause and less yet on how to have good sex after your body goes through it. Unfortunately, a lot of people believe...

How can you stay connected with your partner after having kids? It’s a challenge many parents in long-term relationships will face. Adding kids to a life already packed with work stress, friend and family relationships to maintain, hobbies, and potentially aging and...

Our culture has minimal education on sex—the topic of aging and sexuality is often completely left out. That means you may feel blindsided by some of the side effects or not know what’s normal and what’s not. The best thing you and your partner can do to stay healthy...

One of the founding principles of psychology is to only focus on what you can change. And the only thing you can reliably change is yourself. Yet, introspection can have a powerful effect on your sex life. So, here’s how to ensure that you’re examining yourself in...