Exploring a fetish with your partner is a widespread wish, but many people don’t know where to start. Below are some tips on how to come to terms with your fetish and find a partner who shares it.  Let’s Start at the Very Beginning When you think about what a fetish...

Have you tried anal sex? If your answer is no, you might want to think about why you haven’t dared to venture into your derriere. Some people may fear pain; others may believe that anal sex is dirty— but neither of those scenarios are givens during anal sex. You don’t...

Tantra takes sex and elevates it to an art form. It can bring sex life to a brand-new dimension of intimacy, pleasure, and connection. When you practice tantra, it’s not just sex anymore—it has an element of the divine, something almost supernatural, because of the...

Having hot sex in a long-term relationship takes effort, consideration, and the willingness to learn new skills. Below are some tips to keep sex hot as you and your partner age.  Centering Pleasure During Sex When you center pleasure during sex, you shift the pressure...

Testosterone affects more than just erections. It plays a critical role in your mood, sex drive, bone health, and more. However, as you age, your general health also plays a role in how your body responds sexually. Let’s talk about ways to boost your testosterone...

Religion is a beautiful spiritual practice for some people, but for others, the experience is unfortunately traumatizing. Even if you weren’t verbally, sexually, or emotionally abused, some religious beliefs can leave you feeling disoriented and defeated. Past...

Wondering how to reach self-acceptance and well-being after being diagnosed with an STI? Check out the tips below to get started on a journey toward stigma reduction and a pleasure-focused sex life. How to Minimize Stigma Minimizing stigma for people with STIs is a...

A shocking number of couples will go through an instance of infidelity, and many of those will stick together and work things out. Cheating doesn’t always end a relationship. Couples who choose to work through infidelity can reach breakthroughs and brand-new levels of...

There’s a lot to love about quickies: spontaneity, adrenaline-pumping excitement, urgency, and an orgasm in less time than regular lovemaking takes. Here’s how to elevate quickies so that they are pleasurable for everyone involved.  What a Quickie Is What constitutes...

Many have wondered how you can want something you already have, which is the foundational question of how to create lasting lust in a long-term relationship. Indeed, sex isn’t guaranteed in a long-term partnership—sexless relationships abound. But sex is often treated...