When Racial Trauma Invades the Bedroom

When Racial Trauma Invades the Bedroom

Racial trauma can rear its ugly head in the bedroom. From hypersexualization to sexual racism and objectification, finding sexual fulfillment as a person of color can be tricky. Being marginalized affects every part of you, and it makes sense that it doesn’t leave...

Beyond Kegels: Sophisticated Pelvic Floor Sex Tips

Beyond Kegels: Sophisticated Pelvic Floor Sex Tips

A vagina in good health can have more intense orgasms, easier access to arousal, and mitigate the effects of aging. Vaginal health is a vague, overarching term that is often understudied, but there are practical, measurable ways you can improve your strength that will...

What You Don’t Know About Porn

What You Don’t Know About Porn

Porn is erotic content, including art, film, pictures, and audiobooks. It’s meant to turn you on and keep you entertained. But as technology advances, porn is becoming harder to define. Sometimes, porn is interactive, as when someone pays a cammer online, for...

The Thrill Isn’t Gone: Getting Back to Hot Sex

The Thrill Isn’t Gone: Getting Back to Hot Sex

Knowing your partner well is an excellent intimacy-builder. But it can also make your sex life sizzle. Too much familiarity breeds a sibling- or roommate-like relationship, which can leave you feeling like sex is the last thing on your mind. It’s not that your libidos...

Conversations to Have for Better Sex

Conversations to Have for Better Sex

Talking about sex doesn’t come naturally to everyone. Talking about sex is difficult with someone you don’t know well, but it can be even trickier when you’ve been in a relationship for years and never broached the topic. It takes vulnerability, compassion, and good...

Your Best Orgasm Ever: Prostate Pleasure for Newbies

Your Best Orgasm Ever: Prostate Pleasure for Newbies

Too many people miss out on the magic of prostate pleasure. Let’s talk about prostate milking, orgasm, and massage so you can stop wondering and start exploring.  Prostate Milking 101 Is prostate pleasure the same as prostate milking? Well, not exactly. Prostate...

How Jealousy Can Bring You Closer as a Couple

How Jealousy Can Bring You Closer as a Couple

Sexual jealousy is one of the most potent forms of the green-eyed monster. It can cut you to the quick, rekindling old issues from childhood, like a fear of abandonment or feelings of inadequacy. Feeling jealous can put a damper on your sex life, too. Worse yet, it...