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The Quick and Dirty Guide to Quickies

The Quick and Dirty Guide to Quickies

There’s a lot to love about quickies: spontaneity, adrenaline-pumping excitement, urgency, and an orgasm in less time than regular lovemaking takes. Here’s how to elevate quickies so that they are...

How to Make Your Partner Want You

How to Make Your Partner Want You

Many have wondered how you can want something you already have, which is the foundational question of how to create lasting lust in a long-term relationship. Indeed, sex isn’t guaranteed in a...

Elevate Your Erections

Elevate Your Erections

Having trouble getting or staying hard? It’s not as uncommon as you might think. Below are tips for keeping your penis happy and your sex life healthy.  Consider the Psychological Aspects People...

Reframing Shame and Discovering Sexual Empowerment

Reframing Shame and Discovering Sexual Empowerment

Feeling ashamed is a nearly universal experience, and it’s sadly common in many people’s sex lives. Our culture defines sexual pleasure way too narrowly, and the result is shame about our bodies and...

Exploring Uncharted Sexual Territory

Exploring Uncharted Sexual Territory

Trying something new with your partner can make you feel vulnerable—and so can the act of telling your partner about something you think you’d be into. However, vulnerability pays off since people...

Setting Yourself Up for a Lifetime of Sexual Trust

Setting Yourself Up for a Lifetime of Sexual Trust

If you’re in a sexual relationship with another person, you need to discuss your boundaries around sexual behavior. What one person thinks is completely fine may be seen as a betrayal by another....

Sex Skills 101: Touching Your Partner

Sex Skills 101: Touching Your Partner

Touching your partner the right way can mean the difference between a night of bliss or a cold shoulder. But the reality is that there is no one right way for everyone; each person has a...