Welcome to episode 50 of the Sexology Podcast, today I am delighted to be joined by Dan Griffin, M.A.. In this episode we talk about the meaning behind “The Man Rules”, Dan’s thoughts on recent sexual allegations that have broken in the media and the importance of context and consent in alternative sexual behaviors.
Dan Griffin, M.A., is an internationally recognized author, thought leader, and expert on men’s relationships and masculinity.
Dan’s work and life is dedicated to exploring and redefining what it means to be a man in the 21st century. Dan is dedicated to helping men be better men by understanding the impact of the Man Rules on their lives and finding the success in their personal lives they are striving for in the professional lives. Griffin’s book, A Man’s Way through Relationships, is the first book written specifically to help men create healthy relationships while navigating the challenges of the “Man Rules™,” those ideas men internalize at very young ages about how to be real boys and men. In 2015, Dan was honored to be named a Senior Fellow at the world renowned leader for treating addiction and trauma, The Meadows.
Griffin’s professional background includes over two decades in the mental health and addictions field. He is also the author of A Man’s Way through the Twelve Steps, the first trauma-informed book to take a holistic look at men’s sobriety. He co-authored Helping Men Recover, the first comprehensive gender-responsive and trauma-informed curriculum for addiction and mental health professionals. Griffin earned a Master’s degree in Sociology from the University of Kansas where his graduate work was the first qualitative study centered on the social construction of masculinity in the culture of Alcoholics Anonymous.
In this episode, you will hear:
- The meaning behind “The Man Rules”
- Dan’s thoughts on recent sexual allegations that have broken in the media
- Do we relieve abusers of their actions if they’re sex addicts?
- Recommendations to be more relational in your sexuality
- Can we change our erotic template?
- The importance of context and consent in alternative sexual behaviors
- How a man might react differently from when they’re in recovery from sexual addiction to when they’re in the midst of it
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