Welcome to episode 161 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Carol Queen, PhD to the podcast. In this episode Carol speaks with me about overcoming sexual shyness, things we can do to expand our horizons and tools we can add to our sexual toolbox.

 

Carol Queen is an American author, editor, sociologist and sexologist active in the sex-positive feminism movement. Queen has written on human sexuality in books such as Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture. She has written a sex tutorial, Exhibitionism for the Shy: Show Off, Dress Up and Talk Hot, as well as erotica, such as the novel The Leather Daddy and the Femme.

 

Queen has produced adult movies, events, workshops and lectures. Queen was featured as an instructor and star in both instalments of the Bend Over Boyfriend series about female-to-male anal sex, or pegging. She has also served as editor for compilations and anthologies.

In This Episode You Will Hear: 

 

  • The ways in which people experience sexual pleasure
  • How people integrate their sexuality into relationships
  • Looking at various we can give and receive pleasure
  • How we can more tools to our sexual toolbox
  • Building good compatibility with good communication
  • Where does our sexual shyness come from?
  • Getting over our sexual shyness
  • How erotic audiobooks can expand our sexual horizons
  • Looking at our fantasies and how they play out
  • Why going too far outside your comfort zone isn’t always the best thing

 

25 Ways to Increase Desire

 

101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot

 

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Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey – http://petebailey.net/audio